Kelli YoungloveDec 31, 2023Why Not Get Started Immediately?There's a Mary Oliver poem that starts out with a gripping truth: "I know you never intended to be in this world." When I first read that...
Kelli YoungloveFeb 15, 2023Water It, Give It Away, or THROW IT OUT!There used to be a small plant on the table in James’ studio. Truth is, it wasn't my favourite and often sat neglected for weeks. I'd...
Kelli YoungloveSep 15, 2022When The Thrill Is GoneYears ago while I was sitting in a cafe, the lyrics of a song triggered so much heartache I had to get up and leave. "Life goes on long...
Kelli YoungloveFeb 1, 2021Five Tell-Tale Signs You've Slipped Into a Helpless MindsetWhoops! Did you just slip into helplessness? Well, don't beat yourself up. With all the banana peels of 2020 still lying around, it's...
Kelli YoungloveOct 1, 2020Two Ways of Cleaning the Cat LitterWhen I first moved in with James, I happily (naively) thought it would just be the two of us. We'd talked about kids and both agreed that...
Kelli YoungloveJan 1, 202020/20 VisionIt's the end of December as I write this. I'm sitting in quiet contemplation, getting ready to welcome in the New Year with wide, open...
Kelli YoungloveDec 4, 2017HO HO HOLD the MadnessHappy Holiday Season, my Lovely! (If you’re groaning right now, this love note’s for you.) Because there’s really no need for December...
Kelli YoungloveSep 1, 2015One of the Hardest Things You'll Ever Have to DoIn an earlier post, I wrote about Vertigo and how it’s actually a symptom of misplaced focus. If you missed that article, let me sum it...
Kelli YoungloveJun 1, 2015The Solution to VertigoI was just listening to Borrowing Brilliance by David Kord Murray when I heard something that made me drop everything so I could tell you...
Kelli YoungloveAug 1, 2014There's Not Enough Time (and other lies that make you miserable)When I got up this morning, the sun was shining in through all the windows. My cat was curled up on a warm spot on the kitchen floor. It...